To be or not to be...a friend

To say the least, what is a friend?...do you really know? Is it the one who tells you to just pull out opposed to making a store run? Or the one who will buy your drinks while you two step with the guy in the clean white linen shirt, but cant be found when you need her fresh linen shirt to wipe tears? Or better yet, is it the friend who says you only stumbled once and choses not to take your keys and lets you drive home drunk? come on people wake up!...just because they're your friends on facebook doesnt mean they're your frineds in the real world!... Friends are the ones who will make that drive at 3am to give you that condom, or be there to offer you that linen shirt and worry about the cleaners bill later or even the one who willl go to war with you regardless of fault and afterwards heal your wounds while describing where you went wrong. Those are friends!...people sadden me when they use the term friends so lightly. Get the knife out of your back and re-evaluate your friend circle, remember, if they arent helping you they're a hinderance. Life is too short to entertain bad company. Its Todd with a lil food for thought. "A friend without substance is just a person that you've known for a long time"- Adam Dickerson